Commitment Is Declining (And Why You Should Resist)

When I look around, I see a world where commitment is declining. I’m not speaking about the declines in the rates of marriage or having children, though these are certainly a matter for concern. I’m talking about the small commitments that most of us don’t even think about as commitments. Once upon a time, critics … Continue reading Commitment Is Declining (And Why You Should Resist)

Don’t Feel Guilty, Feel Committed

I like to say that I don’t feel guilty about things. For example, I don’t bother replying to Christmas cards.  Every year, I receive boxes of cards.  I never send a single one.  And I never feel a single pang of guilt. Yet even though I don’t feel guilt, I’m not a sociopath.  I try … Continue reading Don’t Feel Guilty, Feel Committed